{"id":6188,"date":"2023-03-28T16:11:57","date_gmt":"2023-03-28T15:11:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/salisbury\/?page_id=6188"},"modified":"2023-04-05T17:32:09","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T16:32:09","slug":"bystanders","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/salisbury\/womens-safely-initiative\/bystanders\/","title":{"rendered":"Bystanders"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h3>Below we share resources and links as an information hub. We take no responsibility for the contents of these sites or the advice offered.<\/h3>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h1>What can I do?<\/h1>\n<p><strong>Suzy Lamplugh Trust<\/strong> run <a href=\"https:\/\/www.suzylamplugh.org\/Pages\/Events\/Category\/events\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">bystander training courses<\/a> (free)<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h2>Be an active bystander<\/h2>\n<p>If you see someone behaving in an unacceptable way, you might consider intervening. First apply <strong>ABC<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A<\/strong> Assess the situation for safety. Your safety is paramount &#8211; don&#8217;t put yourself at risk.<\/p>\n<p><strong>B<\/strong> Be in a group. It is safer to intervene if there is more than one of you. If you are alone, consider stepping away and reporting the incident to others.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C<\/strong> Care for the victim. Ask if they need help or if they are OK.<\/p>\n<p>If it is safe to intervene, then use the five Ds:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Direct Action<\/strong>: Tell the perpetrator to stop and ask the victim if they are OK. Be polite and stay calm. Do not escalate the situation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Distract<\/strong>: Engage the perpetrator or victim in conversation to disrupt the behaviour and allow the victim to disengage. Devise a distraction like dropping something near them and retrieving it so as to interrupt them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Delegate:\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>Ask someone else to intervene. Nearby security personnel or venue staff might be able help.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Delay:\u00a0<\/strong> Walk away if it&#8217;s not safe to intervene. 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