{"id":8473,"date":"2022-07-26T12:44:58","date_gmt":"2022-07-26T11:44:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/?p=8473"},"modified":"2022-07-27T13:12:33","modified_gmt":"2022-07-27T12:12:33","slug":"25jul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/2022\/25jul\/","title":{"rendered":"Potluck Supper for Friendship and Orange Days"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/216-SISTA-Orange-July-25-22.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-8475\" src=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/216-SISTA-Orange-July-25-22-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"SI St Albans Orange Day July 25 22\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/216-SISTA-Orange-July-25-22-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/216-SISTA-Orange-July-25-22.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>On Monday 25th July it was lovely to be together at\u00a0 Greenwood URC for a &#8220;pot luck supper&#8221; where everyone brought a dish and a drink to share. \u00a0A perfect way to mark the International Day of Friendship.<\/p>\n<p>Sorry &#8211; no photo of the delicious spread &#8211; we forgot to take a pic when it was all beautifully displayed on the table so we&#8217;re standing in front of the mess of empty dishes! It was just a bit too chilly to be be outside so the picnic inside worked very well!<\/p>\n<p>On a more serious note we are all wearing our new orange badges <strong>&#8220;Soroptimists say NO to Violence Against Women&#8221; &#8211; the 25th of every month is Orange Day &#8211; read below for more about &#8220;Orange Day&#8221; and the Soroptimist blog for July Orange Day on stalking.<a href=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/OTW-Stalking-image-25-Jul-22.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-8474\" src=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/OTW-Stalking-image-25-Jul-22-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/OTW-Stalking-image-25-Jul-22-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/OTW-Stalking-image-25-Jul-22-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/OTW-Stalking-image-25-Jul-22-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/st-albans-and-district\/files\/OTW-Stalking-image-25-Jul-22.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"x_elementToProof\">\n<h3>Orange\u00a0<span class=\"mark5eq94t2zc\" data-markjs=\"true\" data-ogac=\"\" data-ogab=\"\" data-ogsc=\"\" data-ogsb=\"\">Day<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The United Nations UNiTE campaign has proclaimed the 25th of each month as \u201c<span class=\"markx1juqwvc4\" data-markjs=\"true\" data-ogac=\"\" data-ogab=\"\" data-ogsc=\"\" data-ogsb=\"\">Orange<\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"mark5eq94t2zc\" data-markjs=\"true\" data-ogac=\"\" data-ogab=\"\" data-ogsc=\"\" data-ogsb=\"\">Day<\/span>\u201d, a\u00a0<span class=\"mark5eq94t2zc\" data-markjs=\"true\" data-ogac=\"\" data-ogab=\"\" data-ogsc=\"\" data-ogsb=\"\">day<\/span>\u00a0to raise awareness and take action to end violence against women and girls. As a bright and optimistic colour,\u00a0<span class=\"markx1juqwvc4\" data-markjs=\"true\" data-ogac=\"\" data-ogab=\"\" data-ogsc=\"\" data-ogsb=\"\">orange<\/span>\u00a0represents a future free from violence against women and girls.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"x_elementToProof\"><a id=\"LPNoLPOWALinkPreview_1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unwomen.org\/en\/what-we-do\/ending-violence-against-women\/take-action\/unite\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-auth=\"NotApplicable\" data-linkindex=\"0\">https:\/\/www.unwomen.org\/en\/what-we-do\/ending-violence-against-women\/take-action\/unite<\/a><\/div>\n<h3><strong>STALKING BLOG<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>What is stalking<\/strong>?\u00a0 It is a pattern of unwanted, fixated and obsessive behaviour which is intrusive and causes fear of violence, serious alarm or distress. These actions affect not only the person being stalked but also their extended network of family and friends. Stalking and harassment are crimes and must be treated as such.<\/p>\n<p>Whilst stalking of well known individuals sometimes makes headlines the majority of cases occur during everyday life to everyday people.\u00a0 In addition to the \u2018commonly known\u2019 behaviours stalking also occurs when other actions happen such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Making up things to damage your reputation<\/li>\n<li>Making false complaints to agencies<\/li>\n<li>Spreading harmful rumours about you<\/li>\n<li>Leaving or ordering unwanted materials or gifts for you<\/li>\n<li>Being bullied at work or school<\/li>\n<li>In extreme cases the stalker may threaten to kill themselves (emotional blackmail).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>It is prevalent<\/strong> in society \u2013 between April 2019 and March 2020 an estimated 4% of people (just over 2.5 million) experienced stalking in the UK.\u00a0 However the number of cases recorded by the Police represents less than 1% of cases that take place. During this period the Suzy Lamplugh Trust estimates that only 0.10% of cases reported resulted in a conviction.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It is persistent<\/strong> \u2013 stalking is considered persistent if it continues beyond two weeks yet many victims suffer up to 100 incidents before talking to the Police.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It is damaging<\/strong> \u2013 Stalking can have serious, life-threatening consequences for victims and can escalate to violence regardless of the stalkers previous criminal history (if any).\u00a0 Serious psychological harm can be caused by stalking \u2013 victims often display signs of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, anxiety and depression as well as issues with work which further adds to their distress and isolation. A study in 2009 (Mullen) reported that 75% of stalking victims reported feeling powerless whilst 25% reported seriously considering, or actually attempting suicide as a result of their experiences.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What to do if you are being stalked<\/strong> \u2013 You should report it to the Police giving as much information as possible, retain phone or text messages, try to get photographs if possible without putting yourself in danger.<\/p>\n<p>Help is also available from the National Stalking Helpline (0808 802 0300) or from a variety of charities such as the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.suzylamplugh.org\/\">Suzy Lamplugh Trust<\/a> or the <a href=\"https:\/\/alicerugglestrust.org\/\">Alice Ruggles Trust<\/a>.\u00a0 In addition you can find local assistance via the Victim and Witness Information page on the Ministry of Justice site (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.victimandwitnessinformation.org.uk\">www.victimandwitnessinformation.org.uk<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Never write stalking off as \u2018just one of those things\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Monday 25th July it was lovely to be together at\u00a0 Greenwood URC for a&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":8475,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[674,675,12,60,11,206,51,13,111,99,608],"class_list":["post-8473","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-club-news","tag-orangeday","tag-stalking","tag-soroptimist","tag-soroptimist-international","tag-st-albans","tag-st-albans-and-district","tag-violence-against-women","tag-women","tag-womens-group","tag-womens-organisation","tag-womens-safety"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Potluck Supper for Friendship and Orange Days | News | Blog | Events | SI St Albans and District<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"SI St Albans and District : Blog &amp; News : Potluck Supper for Friendship and Orange Days : Keep up to date with the latest news, articles and events from the Soroptimists of SI St Albans and District . 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