{"id":805,"date":"2026-10-08T07:16:36","date_gmt":"2026-10-08T07:16:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon-and-district\/?page_id=805"},"modified":"2026-10-19T22:26:15","modified_gmt":"2026-10-19T22:26:15","slug":"relationship-bookmarks","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/our-projects\/relationship-bookmarks\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Bookmarks"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\n\t<section class=\"wysiwyg-outer  fill section\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\n\t<div class=\"container\">\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"content-outer\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t <h2>Soroptimists&#8217; national response<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">Yeovil Soroptimists Club designed the \u201cLoves Me \/ Loves Me Not\u201d relationship bookmarks to highlight the characteristics of good and bad relationships.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\">\nSoroptimist clubs across the country have adopted the bookmarks as a practical way to raise awareness and help people recognise the signs of unhealthy relationships.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_914\" style=\"width: 808px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-914\" class=\"wp-image-914 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Swindon-March-2019.jpg\" alt=\"Nov 2019 Swindon march with Angus McPherson &amp; Nicky Alberry\" width=\"798\" height=\"439\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Swindon-March-2019.jpg 798w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Swindon-March-2019-300x165.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Swindon-March-2019-768x422.jpg 768w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Swindon-March-2019-600x330.jpg 600w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Swindon-March-2019-400x220.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 798px) 100vw, 798px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-914\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nov 2019 Swindon march with Angus McPherson &amp; Nicky Alberry<\/p><\/div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-913 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Project.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"399\" height=\"606\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Project.jpg 399w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Project-198x300.jpg 198w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Project-395x600.jpg 395w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_912\" style=\"width: 583px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-912\" class=\"wp-image-912 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Bristol-2017-Tara-Arkle-Joan-Collins.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"573\" height=\"439\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Bristol-2017-Tara-Arkle-Joan-Collins.jpg 573w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Bristol-2017-Tara-Arkle-Joan-Collins-300x230.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/148\/2026\/10\/Bookmarks-Bristol-2017-Tara-Arkle-Joan-Collins-400x306.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 573px) 100vw, 573px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-912\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tara Arkle &amp; Dame Joan Collins, Bristol 2017<\/p><\/div>\n \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t<\/section>\n\n\n\n\t<section class=\"wysiwyg-outer  inline section\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\n\t<div class=\"container\">\n\n\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"content-outer\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t <h2>Local club actions<\/h2>\n<p>Swindon Soroptimists adopted the bookmarks in 2010 and developed the project through partnerships with schools, local authorities and organisations supporting vulnerable people.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Educating young people:<\/strong> Distributed bookmarks to all senior schools in Swindon in 2010, extending the initiative across Wiltshire in 2011 and repeating it in 2013 and 2015.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Working with local authorities:<\/strong> Met Wiltshire Council in 2018, leading to the bookmark images and club contact details being added to its Healthy Schools website. The information was updated in 2022.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Supporting vulnerable women:<\/strong> Supplied bookmarks to the Nelson Trust Women\u2019s Centre, Swindon Women\u2019s Aid, the Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) and other local organisations.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Reaching wider communities:<\/strong> Shared bookmarks through churches, doctors\u2019 surgeries, community halls, schools, colleges and Army welfare centres.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Raising awareness of violence against women:<\/strong> Participated in awareness marches in Bristol and Weston-super-Mare in 2017 and organised Swindon\u2019s \u201cRailing Against Abuse\u201d march on 25 November 2019.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Making relationships education accessible:<\/strong> Worked with Swindon Borough Council\u2019s Safer Streets projects, with bookmarks used in school relationship-training sessions and supplied for safety bags distributed to vulnerable women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Expanding the project:<\/strong> Continued to work with local partners, including Wiltshire Police and VAS Swindon, to fund and distribute further bookmarks.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t<\/section>\n\n\n\n\t<section class=\"accordion-outer    section\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t    <header class=\"section-header container\">\n\t\t\t        <div class=\"section-header-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"section-header-title\">Impact<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t    <\/header>\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<button class=\"accordion-button accordion-trigger\" aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"accordion-panel-Stronger-local-partnerships\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tStronger local partnerships <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon\"><use xlink:href=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/themes\/honeycom3\/assets\/svg\/icons.svg#arrow-right\"\/><\/svg>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/button>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion-panel\" aria-labelledby=\"accordion-button-Stronger-local-partnerships\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion-description content\"><p>The project connects schools, councils, police, support services and community organisations around relationship awareness and the prevention of abuse.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<button class=\"accordion-button accordion-trigger\" aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"accordion-panel-A-lasting,-practical-resource\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tA lasting, practical resource <svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"icon\"><use xlink:href=\"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/wp-content\/themes\/honeycom3\/assets\/svg\/icons.svg#arrow-right\"\/><\/svg>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/button>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion-panel\" aria-labelledby=\"accordion-button-A-lasting,-practical-resource\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"accordion-description content\"><p>The bookmarks provide a simple, accessible reminder of healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviours, with routes to further information and support.<\/p>\n<p>Since we started in 2010 <strong>our club has distributed more than 21,000 bookmarks <\/strong>to vulnerable women and girls.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t<\/section>\n\n\n\t<section class=\"statistic-outer   section\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t    <header class=\"section-header container\">\n\t\t\t        <div class=\"section-header-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"section-header-title\">Thousands of people reached<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t    <\/header>\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<div class=\"container\">\n\t\t\t<ul class=\"statistic\" id=\"countup\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"statistic-item\" id=\"myTargetElement1922\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-item-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-value\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"statistic-value-number counter\" data-value=\"4000\">0<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"statistic-title\">bookmarks used by Swindon Borough Council<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-summary\"><p>for relationship training in senior schools &amp; open sessions at Swindon College<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"statistic-item\" id=\"myTargetElement8675\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-item-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-value\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"statistic-value-number counter\" data-value=\"10000\">0<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"statistic-title\">bookmarks funded by Wiltshire Police<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-summary\"><p>used in schools\u2019 relationship training, by Army Welfare in Tidworth and by many others<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"statistic-item\" id=\"myTargetElement1904\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-item-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-value\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"statistic-value-number counter\" data-value=\"500\">0<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"statistic-title\">bookmarks used by VAS swindon<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-summary\"><p>in more deprived areas of Swindon<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"statistic-item\" id=\"myTargetElement5839\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-item-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-value\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"statistic-value-number counter\" data-value=\"3000\">0<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"statistic-title\">bookmarks used by Swindon Borough Council<\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"statistic-summary\"><p>in Safety Bags for vulnerable women and to supply local women\u2019s organisations <\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t<\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":155,"featured_media":0,"parent":667,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","footnotes":""},"page-themes":[],"topic":[],"class_list":["post-805","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/155"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=805"}],"version-history":[{"count":58,"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/805\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1434,"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/805\/revisions\/1434"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/667"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"page-themes","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/page-themes?post=805"},{"taxonomy":"topic","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sigbi.org\/swindon\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic?post=805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}