At our meeting in July, SI Hertford and District welcomed Amy, a Young Carer Support Advisor from Carers in Hertfordshire, this year’s President’s charity.
Amy began by outlining some of the difficulties which young carers can face, often without others realising the issues. For example, something as normal as inviting a friend round after school or going to friends’ birthday parties can be impossible if there is a brother or sister with a disability at home or if parents cannot provide transport because they are caring for a disabled sibling. Young carers often don’t want to have to explain the issues to their friends, so they can become isolated because they are unable to participate in social activities.
Amy explained some of the ways in which Carers in Hertfordshire can provide support for young carers. Firstly, a support advisor will visit the family and advise families on what help is available from the local authority and other agencies, helping to make applications and follow up. Also, there are a number of leisure activities offered by the charity, where young carers can meet with others and have fun. Many young carers have said how good it is to meet others who understand their situation.
There is also a yearly conference, where young carers can help shape policy at the charity, so it gives them the support they ask for. This is also where professional are invited and the young carers share with them some of the difficulties they face.
The charity also works with schools throughout Hertfordshire, helping to get across the message about young carers. Schools often have a “no tolerance” policy for lateness, for example. If a child has to help dress a younger sibling, get breakfast and take the sibling to school because a parent is disabled, it is difficult to get to school on time. A support worker will help the school to understand the situation but will also help the family to get the support they need so the young carer does not need to do so much.
Finally, Amy told us about Cleveland. He is a large toy cat. Young carers are encouraged to let Cleveland say how he feels about being a carer, so negative feelings can be expressed without fear of being disloyal.
Further information about the President’s charity can be found at www.carersinherts.org.uk
