Stalking This neighbourhood alert has been circulated by Durham constabulary and gives some useful information about how to watch out for stalking behaviour. Remember F.O.U.R: If someone’s behaviour towards you is fixated, obsessive, unwanted and repeated, it’s likely they are stalking you. Here are some examples: FIXATED: Being followed on your daily routine, spied on, or being watched by someone loitering around your work or home. OBSESSION: Being monitored on or offline, cyberstalkinng, the ordering and cancelling of items on your behalf. UNWANTED ATTENTION: Gifts being sent or left for you; unwanted messages, letters or phone calls. Even damage or graffiti being caused to your property. REPEATED BEHAVIOUR: This can be any nuisance or threatening behaviour, being approached, accosted or bullied repeatedly. Stalking behaviours can include but are not limited to: – Following, surveillance, spying. – Standing, loitering around your home, school, place of work